Eye Candy#16

Today's eye candy pick is the muy caliente CSI Miami actor Adam Rodriguez. Mr. Rodriguez is a native of Yonkers, NY(I knew he had to be something about that NY swag). His latest acting gig that most may remember him from was Tyler Perry's I Can Do Bad All By Myself. Something about NY men makes sistas want to wear bamboo earrings, suck on a lollipop and have that accent. Since he is known for solving crimes, I don't think he would mind a lil role-playing; cops and robbers LOL. Looking at him and those lucious lips makes me want to commit a crime. GOOD LAWD!!
Thank you LAWD for blessing the Earth and our eyes with this beautiful creature that you created.

Black History Month Facts

On this day February 27
In 1988, Ice Skater Debi Thomas became the first African American to win a bronze at the Winter Olympics.(side note that was my girl back in the day she is the one that got me interested in ice skating)
In 1872, United States' first African American lawyer Charlotte Ray, graduated from Howard Law School.
In 1869, Congress adopted the 15th Amendment making it illegal to deny the right to vote based on color,race or previous condition of servitude.
(Sourced from blackfacts.com)

White Sorority Wins Sprite Step Competition

I heard about this from some tweets, but couldn't find videos until now. Here's the info....An all white girl sorority Zeta Tau Alpha competed in the Sprite Step Competition against other (I believe all the rest were black groups) sororities including Alpha Kappa Alpha. At the end of the competition it was determined through calculating the scores from the judges that Zeta Tau Alpha won first place which included a $100k scholarship prize. There was so much controversy and speculation as to why the only white group won that Sprite sent out this statement...
After the National Finals Competition this past weekend in Atlanta wrapped, we got together to do our post-competition review and found a scoring discrepancy in the sorority results. After looking at it and looking at it AGAIN, we determined there isn't a definitive resolution."

"Sprite is all about preserving the honesty and integrity of this competition. Because the scoring discrepancy can't be resolved and due to the really tight margin between the first and second place sorors, we feel that the only right thing to do is to name both Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc., Tau Chapter & Zeta Tau Alpha, Epsilon Chapter, co-first place winners of the Sprite Step Off."

"With these revised results, we're gonna increase Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc., Tau Chapter's scholarship prize to $100K, consistent with what Zeta Tau Alpha also got for their first prize winnings."



After watching the videos of both Zeta Tau Alpha(white group) and Alpha Kappa Alpha (black group)I must say that the white girls did the damn thang!! I'm just being honest. If we are about changing racism and discrimination in the world, why can't we talk the same talk when it comes to all black traditions like step shows?? I do not see what the problem is. That AKA step show was all about dancing to the latest music anyways...shit I can see the videos or go to the club for that. The Zetas were very creative and innovative with their Matrix step show especially the girl stepping on top of a table while other members held it up in the air!!!! That was more creative than the most played out move of them all in step shows; holding your hand up like a mirror and patting your pretty lil face thats so AKA....Give the Zetas the respect that is due to them..they won fair and square and I think it was very wrong of Sprite to give the prize to the AKAs the day after just to save face and keep the money rolling in. In the end it's all about politics. Wish people could stick to their first instincts and when questioned about it man up and stand your ground.
What do you guys think?? Post your comments

Eye Candy#15

Eye candy of the day is Lance Gross. This fine young chocolate thang is very tasty!! He's an Howard alumni that turned down a track and field scholarship to become an actor. Best known for his role of Tyler Perry's House of Payne and engaged to America's Top Model Eva Pigford. This fine young specimen of a man is taken ladies, but you can still look and dream...look at his body I have to say that this is one of the best bodies I have seen in a minute...what do yall think??
GOOD LAWD!!
Thank you LAWD for blessing the Earth and our eyes with this beautiful creature that you created.

Eye Candy #14

Ladies,
some times you need an older man to show you what a real man can and will do for you..today's eye candy pick is my 007 James Bond; Daniel Craig. Mr Craig was born in England and is best known for his acting skills; 007 James Bond in Casino Royale and Road to Perdition. I love the 007 movies(I've seen all of them) and love all the actors that have played James Bond, but something about Mr. Craig makes him my #1....With those piercing blue eyes and English accent who wouldn't want to be one of the Bond girls?? GOOD LAWD!!
Thank you LAWD for blessing the Earth and our eyes with this beautiful creature that you created.
ENJOY LADIES
SMOOCHEZ
RONI

You walk in a room,
A woman can feel the heat.
One look is a guarantee
Nights could be long and sweet.
The message is clear
Like nothing I've ever known.
But the more that I hear,
Forget about long-range plans
'Cause this man's got his own.

To get mixed up with a man who says never
May be big trouble, but then
I just could be the woman to take you
And make you never say never again.
(007 song Never Say Never Again)

LA Gang Tour...WTF!!!!!!

ok la gang tours wtf

They show the inside of this bus taking tourist through the hood
Happy Caucasians and other foreigner people in khakis and button down white shirts glasses laughing and smiling!!
Ok WHO THE HELL THOUGHT OF THIS!!!!
What are you doing??ok is this an educational trip or encouraging people to become more more racist!!!!!!!
Now they have the journalist out there like they're going to hijack the bus oh shit dare them to stop at a liquor store !! Well they might lol
People so damn curious about the hood>>> Well help the hood while you laughing and giggling ain't nothing funny about people dying everyday and kids can't eat or sleep in peace or hearing gunshots on a daily ducking and dodging or having to join a gang because they live on the street. Why don't you do this take your happy analyzing observing ass out the bus and stay for a month and then report how you went to the hood!! Because driving by ain't nothing unless you experience something!!

Shells

(image taken from flickr)

here is an excerpt of info I pulled from the website www.lagangtours.com

Imagine...

AN OPPORTUNITY TO SAVE A LIFE, CREATE JOBS AND REBUILD COMMUNITIES

The mission of LA GANG TOURS is to provide an unforgettable historical experience for our customers with a customized high-end specialty tour. We will provide customers with a true first-hand encounter of the history and origin of high profile gang areas and the top crime scene locations in South Central, Los Angeles. Each tour bus for LA GANG TOURS will have a guide from the South Central areas who has gained hands-on knowledge and experience of the inner city lifestyle.

The objective is to create jobs for the residents of South Central, Los Angeles; to give profits from the tours back to these areas for economic growth and development, provide job/entrepreneur training, micro-financing opportunities and to specialize in educating people from around the world about the Los Angeles inner city lifestyle, gang involvement and solutions. This project will create opportunities to contribute to the economic health of South Central and the tools needed to access the American market.

Your participation allows the success of a cease-fire agreement between three of the largest and most notorious gangs in L.A. history. This agreement will allow young people and children safe passage (gun fire free safety zones). It will provide the framework to create a peaceful environment conducive to their physical, spiritual and emotional well-being. With your help together we will save lives and create sustainable change.

Safe Passage

GUN FIRE FREE SAFETY ZONES

5-10% of the gang population is responsible for 65-70% of all gang violence. LA GANG TOURS has access to the "5%," those who have their fingers on the triggers. The participating gangs in the established gun fire free safety zones have agreed to allow LA GANG TOURS to operate in their areas, given our goals to hire their youth for employment opportunities and offer job and entrepreneurship training programs.

LA GANG TOURS has predetermined routes and times that are honored by each of the participating and opposing gangs. Every effort has been made, from the time of day to departure locations, to ensure a safe, pleasant and enjoyable tour experience.

WOULD YOU GO ON THIS TOUR?? DO YOU BELIEVE THE CONCEPT BEHIND IT??

Remember the dial tone??

today i realized just how much i rely on modern technology..as i sat on the phone going through the dmv automated system pressing numbers and saying letters, getting kicked back to the beginning due to the noise in the background being picked up, i realized that this shit sucks!! what happened to hearing the dial tone of the phone, RING RING then a human voice coming through on the other end. Now its "press 1 for english" "to wait to speak to a representative your hold time is over 10 minutes we advise that you call back another day". What the HELL!! they know they are wasting my cell minutes..the last time i had a land line was over 5 years ago and i only used it to for my apartment intercom system. after spending almost 20 minutes trying to successfully get through the dmv automated system for an issue that only took approximately 2 minutes to accomplish I realized how much i miss having a phone in the home. At least all i had to do was pick the phone up, dial, listen to a couple of rings and hear a voice..now its text messaging, facebook,twitter and other tech shit i don't even know about which has eliminated the need for the human connection; the voice of the operator..i am guilty of being followers of these social sites and rarely using my speed dial or contact list on my cell phone. i just text a message insert who to send it to and hope that my reception is 100% in that area so the other person receives my message. if I'm sending the message in the form of a text does that mean it wasn't important enough to me or that person to say it verbally over the phone or does it mean that i don't want to call someone for a 1 minute question or we are at work texting instead or working (LOL i know I'm not the only one that does that)..texting is a lifesaver, but also an escape for some that would rather skip the subtleties of having a personal conversation with emotions, feelings and requirement an attention span, answer and response. with texting you don't have to express or fake anything and if you don't want to you can say that "you never received the text that's why you didn't respond..can you send it again??" do you remember the dial tone?? this is so random but o well LOL
(image found on yahoo search)

Eye Candy#13

Ladies, today's eye candy pick is an amazing rapper and actor. He hails from the Chi and is always reppin. Lonnie Rashid Lynn, Jr aka Common is easy on the ears and eyes. From albums to acting debuts to being a model, vegan and PETA & Obama supporter to supposedly dating tennis great Serena Williams, Common is always on the go. Common is not "common" looking(hahahaha)..from his smile to the lil freckles on his face. His voice is soothing enough to make any woman melt. My fav Common song is "I Want You" "I've been thinking bout, I've been thinking bout
I've been thinking bout you lately
Thoughts take me to when we were close
Addicted to your love, feel I need another dose"
GOOD LAWD yes I do and you will too after looking at his pics!!!!
Thank you LAWD for blessing the Earth and our eyes with this beautiful creature that you created.
ENJOY LADIES

SMOOCHEZ
Roni

Does Size Really Matter to the Sistas??

The Sistas decided to blog our 3 P.O.Vs on the controversial question of "Does size really matter?"

MICHELLE'S P.O.V.-

SIZE??DAMN THAT'S A PRETTY COMPLEX ISSUE.

OK NOW LOOK SIZE MAY MATTER TO SOME BUT NOT REALLY TO ME

WELL 5 INCHES I'M STRICTLY NOT DOING I WONT EVEN DO 6

THAT WILL NOT EVEN MAKE ME HUM A SONG

SEE IT'S ALL ABOUT GIRTH AND WIDTH THAT MAKES A DIFFERENCE

SOMETHING THAT MIGHT MAKE THE COON FART AND TALK TO YOU

I DON'T THINK LENGTH IS THE BIG DEAL BECAUSE IT COULD BE LONG AND

LEAN LIKE A DODGER DOG AND ALL THAT WILL DO WILL FRUSTRATE ME TO

THE FULLEST!!!!!!

NOW THICKNESS COUNTS

MUSHROOM HEADS EXCITING

THICK VEINS STIMULATING

PULSATION AND THRUST EXHILARATING

PUMPS PUMPS PUMPS GET ME TO WHERE I NEED TO BE

TOO LONG MAY CAUSE ME DISCOMFORT

THE SPEED OF PASSION WILL MAKE ME EXPLODE

SIZE COUNTS IN SO MANY WAYS BUT MAYBE THE WAY I LIKE

MAY NOT BE WHAT YOU WANT

SOME LIKE DONKEY D'S AND LONG TREE BARKS

I JUST WANT SOMETHING THAT WILL LET ME KNOW THEY WANT ME

JUST AS BAD

DOES SIZE MATTER??
YOU ANSWER THAT!!

ALL I CAN SAY IS IF THE PU&&Y DON'T DRIP THEN YOUR DICK WASN'T THE SHIT!!!!!

RONI'S P.O.V.-
DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER TO THE SISTAS?

HHMMMMM THIS IS ONE OF THOSE QUESTIONS THAT CAN BE ANSWERED YES AND NO....DAMN THE "D" IS A CRAZY THING..

WELL SINCE THIS FROM MY P.O.V. I MUST SAY(YES) THAT AS LONG AS ITS AT LEAST(AND THIS MAY BE TOO NICE) 6-6 1/2 INCHES(THAT'S MY SHOE SIZE LOL) AT LEAST, NO SMALLER THAN THAT OR IT WILL BE AN ISSUE OF SIZE!!!!. BUT THEN AGAIN ARE WE TALKING ABOUT WHEN ITS HARD OR JUST HANGING?? CUZ WHEN ITS JUST HANGING IT CAN BE 6 AND THEN WHEN ITS HARD IT GROWS A COUPLE OF INCHES TO LIKE 7 1/2-8 INCHES...LIKE I SAID THE "D" IS A VERY CRAZY THING..
(THIS IS THE NO PART)BUT THE MOST IMPORTANT ASPECT/FEATURE OF THE "D" IS HOW IT MOVES AND CONDUCTS ITS BIZNESS. IF A GUY CAN'T HIT THE SPOT OR EVEN FIND IT, SHIT IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT SIZE IT IS THEN. IF HE CAN HIT THE SPOT MULTIPLE TIMES AND KEEP THE "D' INNOVATIVE AND FRESH... WE ARE ALL GOOD. IF THE "D" ISN'T UP TO STANDARD THEN HE BETTER BE DOING THE BEST FOUR-PLAY AND USING HIS FINGERS AND TOYS TO MAKE UP THE DIFFERENCE.
THE "POT OF GOLD" IS A VERY COMPLEX CREATURE; SOMETIMES SHE IS NICE AND SWEET AND OTHER TIMES SHE NEEDS TO BE SPANKED. THE "D" NEEDS TO KNOW WHICH MOOD SHE IS IN AND IF IT DOESN'T THEN BASICALLY IT'S WORTHLESS..SHIT WITH ALL THE TOYS WE HAVE AVAILABLE, THE "D" HAS MAJOR COMPETITION AND IF IT CAN'T PERFORM IT WILL BE REPLACED.
THE "D" CAN MAKE AND/OR BREAK A RELATIONSHIP FASTER THAN ANY OTHER ISSUE.
BUT DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER? LIKE I SAID BEFORE YES AND NO..BUT YOU GOTS TO LOVE ME LOOOONNGGG TIME!!!!

SMOOCHEZ

KAREEN'S P.O.V.-
For most women it is about preference, big, small or long depends on what a girl is into. (Read Blog on our Page-“Men grab a pen and paper…”, for an idea of “What Woman Want”)

I’m the type of chick that likes to know what I’m getting into. And we all know that 90% percent of the time prior to sex, it’s a game of Russian Roulette.

The double standard is kind of crazy.

Fellas, doesn’t size matter to yall? When you walk into club you are on the hunt for the fattest ASS, the Biggest Tatta’s and the fullest lips. You got poor girls running to the nearest plastic surgeon, cutting themselves up, just to be CHOSEN. Just so that it's all laid out for you, from a distance. Once you find that half naked chick from jump you KNOW without a reasonable doubt- that she must have some BOMB.


You’re set up before the first HELLO.


For ladies it’s not that easy! We (ladies) walk into the same club it’s not so obvious. You scope out the cute guy, now you got to walk up close to check out his ASSets. If you get too close 9 chances out of 10 you’ll have to start a conversation. By this point you have heard some dumb pick up line that has you super irritated. But if he looks good enough you keep him entertained.

Then you gotta dance with him. Blah, Blah, Blah. See how he moves; rub up against him- just so you can get some idea of what he is working with! All of this and your still unsure until before and during SEX.

Gay men know the deal- skinny jeans, tight shirts and tub tops. At least they know what they are working with from jump

Then there is the SUPERHERO SYNDROME. Like “HANCOCK” men think they can just fly around all day without a care in the world. Sticking every woman they can find, waking up the NEXT morning with SUPERPOWERS without a care in the world. No Pressure, “Just Saving Hoes”



YES, YES and YES. The Size of the D, the Size of the Bank Account and the Size of your Brain…. ALL MATTER

Yall 2010 men have it way to EASY!

Real Talk: Man the F-UP!

Yall don’t have to fight off ferocious dinosaurs, lions and tigers and bears or hunt wild boars anymore. From the beginning of time to today woman have bled every month and had agonizing Labor Pains…

All for YOUR Babies…

(Keep that in mind the next time you come across a woman that might be a little bitter, Don’t take it personal, it stems from some OLD shit!)

With that said, Fellas give a Sista Something to be Excited About!!!

Some BOMB D, Cash and some Head (Smarts) is the least you can contribute to the evolution of Mankind!

Because Not all Chicks Need Saving!!!!!



Ladies Don’t SETTLE for the “D”!

Eye Candy#12

Today's eye candy is not only good looking, but intelligent. He is an actor, author, philanthropist and Harvard Law School graduate. He has his JD and MPA, but chose to become an actor. I am talking about none other than the multi-talented Hill Harper. Hill Harper is the epitome what a real man is; the looks, book smarts, street smarts, stands up for what he believes in and is man of many talents. He can melt your heart with his looks and smile and have mind sex with you with his intelligence. Mr. Harper is what women dream of and describe when they are talking about their "Mr.Right". Mr. Harper can flip the pages of my book any time..GOOD LAWD!!!! Thank you LAWD for blessing the Earth and our eyes with this beautiful creature that you created. ENJOY LADIES

SMOOCHEZ
RONI
(images taken from yahoo image search engine)

Real Life: Technology is a B#t@h

I Love Technology!


Int. Christina’s Apartment- Day




Christina and Mike have been married for nine years but have been separated for the past two years. Now, Mike lives in Down South and Christina is in Cali with their 5 year old son named Daniel. Mike pops into town unexpectedly to see his son and is now at Christina’s apartment.




Side note: Mike has had a Chick #2 for most of their marriage, which caused a lot of problems while he and Christina were living together




We are coming into the story as Mike has been at the apartment for about an hour and is standing in the kitchen and Christina is encouraging him to leave because she is expecting company.

Christina-


"Mike you can spend time with your son, it just can't be here!!"

As she is leading Mike towards the door.




Mike-


"Christina, your tripping I came all this way to see my son."




They are now standing outside




Christina- (cont)


"I understand but you showed up unannounced , what do you expect?!"




At this point the conversation gets heated and they are now standing outside bantering back and forth. Christina looks around extremely frustrated waiting for this to be over. She sees a blue and white cab pulling up. A chick gets out, and tells the cab driver to leave...




Christina- (in her head) – (V.O)


Who is this Chick walking up, Am I tripping??…

She takes a closer look and it is Chick # 2.

Mike looks over in the direstion of Chick#2 with a look of astonishment. Because Chick #2 did not know where he was




Mike- (very agitated)


"Chick #2, what the F*@k are you doing here?"

Mike starts walking towards Chick #2 completely forgetting about Christina and his son.





Christina- (yelling)


"Are you serious? Mike how you gonna have this Bi#c* at my house. "

Now Mike is really bugging out because he does not know how Chick#2 found him.




Chick # 2-


"You must think I’m stupid. Technology is a wonderful thing isn't it Mike?? It can really be a girl's best friend"
said with a big smirk on her face as she is laughing loudly




Christina is now heading to her apartment.




Mike- (cont)


"How the HELL did you find me?"

Holding his face, he is very distraught




Chick #2-

"Why you think I bought you an IPhone, so I can
track your every location! You big Dummy! "




Mike looks down at his phone and shakes his head. He wants to throw it across the street. But, thinks twice because it would be way too expensive to replace.




Christina- (in her head)


Technology is a Bi*c#!

End Scene….




Side Note: My Home Girl (K-Hop, you know what it is) called me with this story and I had to share... Fact is way better then fiction. This story speaks for itself. The only thing that comes to mind is the Technology Song from Napoleon Dynamite! HAAAAAA, HAAAAA

I Love Technology: Sung by KIP



Why do you love me
Why do you need me
Always and forever

We met in a chat room
Now our love can fully bloom
Sure, the World Wide Web is great
But you, you make me 'salvivate'

Yes, I love technology
But not as much as you, you see
But I still love technology
Always and forever

Our love is like a flock of doves

Flying up to heaven above
Always and forever
Always and forever

Yes, our love is truly great
Always and forever

Why do you need me
Why do you love me...

Sorry I'm late. I just got done taming a wild honeymoon stallion for you guys.
Hey Deb, can you take a photo of me on the horse real quick'
Sure.
Thanks.
I hope you guys experiences are unforgettable.
Lookee lookee, a little keepsake for you guys.
Lucky.

Fear of an Intelligent Man...

During a conversation with one of our male friends the question came up about why women say they want an intelligent, successful man that has his life together, but settle for a thug who ain't about nothing instead of giving the man (who is trying and struggling to get his life right)a chance?? All 3 of us said that's not really use, but there are a lot of woman who are about this. Why do we do this to ourselves and the men who we really want for companions. We complain complain complain about how we can't find a good man, get a "bad boy" and just take what he dishes out. Then as we grow tired of his acts and immaturity we start to complain about him. Then the so-called "Mr. Right" we are looking and dreaming of comes along we don't know how to either break him down to feel like nothing or shit all over the relationship if it even gets that far. I question the motives of women sometimes. You can not constantly complain about how there are no good men around, when all you date are immature, one step out of or damn near on their way to jail, no good, don't wanna work, living life for his self, priorities not together and probably never will be, "Oh I can change him girl in no time" Oh really!! You think you can change a man who has been like that for years. As a therapist in training I have learned in so many classes that behaviors can be changed but not personalities. As women we are quick to try and change a man's personality, but not focus on the behaviors that are causing the personality to continue to be the way it is. The only person that can change a personality is that person, not you boo boo. Women need to wake up and look at the men that are really out there, most of the time there is a good man in your circle of friends or you have meet before and you haven't given him the time or day because he drives a Honda instead of a Benz or Range. The same guy driving the Benz or Range is usually leasing it and living in an apartment or in a house full of roommates or with is moms. Some of yall might be getting offended and some might think this could be a lil on the male bashing side but its just real talk. I have been on this earth for 33 years and women and men continue to have this conversation all the time. With the way the economy is, wouldn't you rather have a man making his way from the bottom to the top of the ladder in the company than the man who can't even get passed filling out the resume?? We talk about how hard is to find a man, but are you really looking or being basic and talking the talk? Really think about and most of the time YOU are the cause for your self not finding "Mr. Right". I'm not saying to lower your standards, but honestly ladies some of those standards you don't even meet, so how could you really expect to find a partner to fill those "big shoes"?? Now, honestly I like a lil thug passion in my life. My man is from the projects of BK so he knows what's hood. But he always can break down and rebuild a computer without any formal training and keeps up with the news and politics and can hold a conversation. So Ladies, you can have the best of both worlds. You need to live your life with you eyes,ears and hearts open because you never know who will enter you life when you are willing instead of waiting for something that really doesn't exist... It's 2010 Ladies stop being BASIC!!
REAL TALK

SMOOCHEZ
RONI

(image source: yahoo image search engine)

Can Men and Women Really Be Just Friends??

As a woman I have always had more male friends than women. For some reason I have always found them easier to hang with, no judgment or hating going on, just chilling and vibing with each other. Plus they have always given me the male's perspective and I give them the female's. But some people question can men and women really just be friends and ONLY FRIENDS?? I have always been puzzled by this question and when people find out that I have more male friends than females they always assume that they were once my boyfriends, gay or we had a fling or some feelings but never went to the next level. Honestly, I do believe that men and women can just be friends and men and women need the opposite sex in their life on a platonic level. One of my best friend's is a guy and we have never had anything more than that. We never even saw each other like that. Some people you just click with from the first time that you meet, either on a friendship level or romance level. This is not a game of clue shit we are all grown and know what each relationship feels like and what emotions are expected in each. Til this day most of my friends are males that I have known for years most of them beginning in high school. We call each other for advice or share stories of our relationships,life's ups and downs,news,gossip etc. I think having male friends in my life have given me a perspective of the best of both worlds. Some of my partners from previous relationships have told me that sometimes I thought like a man and could predict their moves and thoughts, but that's some of the insight I gained from my male friends that have always kept in real with me. I never allowed a fool to play me because if he was trying to run game, I could smell that shit from a mile away. Some of my male friends would call me about their chicks and would give them real talk so they couldn't get played or could find out from the gate if she was real or not. Who wouldn't appreciate a real relationship like that; where there is no pretending, faking, lies, games, he said/she said shit..just realness because the only thing that is expected is a friend that will be there til the end. The advice that we share with each other is scared; almost on a sibling level and I would never want to destroy that. So can men and women really be friends and only friends? YES if you want just that. The relationship is established in the beginning and never are the boundaries crossed and if it ever comes to that crossroad of blurry feelings and emotions, if you are truly friends like you say you are..you would weigh your options carefully and hopefully value your friendship and communicate about it. I love my male friends for life and don't know what kind of woman I would really be without them. We have helped each other grow into the adults we are and we appreciate that. So to the people that judge or question these platonic relationships you need to question what you are really about and what you have been doing to think that a man and woman can't be just friends.
Sometimes your own issues cloud your judgment of others.
Now that's real talk, real life!!

SMOOCHEZ
RONI

WTF..Leave Tiger Alone..

SO EVERYONE IS EXPECTING THIS DUDE T WOODS TO COME OUT AND EXPLAIN HIS SELF....
WHO CARES WHAT HE SAYS IT'S HIS BUSINESS !! HE CHEATED!
I DON'T SEE ANYONE SCREAMING OUT LOUD FOR CHARLIE SHEEN TO EXPLAIN WHAT HAPPEN TO HIM
AND HIS WIFE IN COLORADO OR UTAH WHEREVER THE INCIDENT HAPPENED AND HE WAS ABUSING HER WHILE BEING CRACKED OUT LMAO.
DO YOU REALIZE NONE OF THESE CHICKS WOULD HAVE SAID NOTHING IF UCHITEL'S FRIEND DIDN'T OPEN UP HER MOUTH.
SOME FRIENDS DON'T NEED TO KNOW ALL YOUR BUSINESS(PRIME EXAMPLE).
YES WE ALL KNOW IT WAS WRONG, BUT DO YOU REALLY CARE?!
HIS WIFE DROPPED THE DIVORCE LAWYER SO WHO'S REALLY IN THE WRONG NOW!! DIDN'T HEAR ANYONE TALKING ABOUT HOW DUMB SHE IS FOR THAT MOVE SHE MADE AND DID ANYONE REMEMBER SHE DID BUST THIS DUDE IN THE FACE WITH A GOLF CLUB
ISN'T THAT ATTEMPTED MURDER ???????????????????????????????????/
THIS BROAD WAS A NANNY AND WHO'S TO SAY SHE DIDN'T MARRY HIM FOR A MEAL
TICKET.
WE DON'T KNOW WHAT HER INTENTIONS WERE IN THE FIRST PLACE ,MAYBE
SHE GOT TIRED OF WIPING ASSES AND BEING A PARENT TO SOMEONE ELSE'S KID
(IN HER INNER THOUGHTS) WHOA T WOODS LIKES ME THAT'S A MEAL TICKET FOR MS NANNY!!
DOES ELIN REALLY LOOK LIKE SHE BE GETTING DOWN AND DIRTY WITH HER HUBBY??
HE'S A BILLIONAIRE SHE BETTER BE ON THE KNEES AND NOT JUST MISSIONARY(LMAO)
IS THIS SITUATION REALLY GOING TO STOP YOU FROM WATCHING T WOODS GOLF
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!
GE IT TOGETHER PEOPLE
PREZ CLINTON GOT HIS WANK WANK SUCKED AND WE SEEN THE EVIDENCE
ON THE DRESS AND HE STILL IN THE LIMELIGHT AS ONE OF THE MOST LOVED PRESIDENTS
TIGER STAY UP COME BACK AND WIN!!
I SEE YOU BEEN WORKING OUT GETTING THEM MUSCLES RIGHT . USE YOUR MUSCLES TO TIGHTEN UP THAT STROKE OOPS MAYBE I SHOULD OF PHRASED THAT DIFFERENTLY(NO PUN INTENDED LOL)!

REAL TALK,

SHELLS

Winter Olympics Update

Michelle and I have been doing a great job keeping up with the Winter Olympics and last night we witnessed(along with the millions of viewers around the world) Black Speed Skater Shani Davis making history again. In 2006 he made history becoming the first African American speed skater to win gold in the 1,000 meter. Last night he made history by winning back to back gold medals. We were so excited to see him skate along with South Korean's Mo Tae-Bum. Remember I wrote the post about my 2 cultures clashing??(did you read it huh? did ya??LOL). We were texting each other back and forth all night during the Olympics waiting to see the event. I felt like I was a family member or had money on the competition. Michelle and I were so excited after he won. Now we have a story to tell our children and future generations like our relatives told us about the Black Olympians who did the Black Power fist salute in 1968. Next was snowboarding. Have you ever tried it before? It's not as easy as it looks. I went two seasons in a row a few years ago and never made it off the bunny slopes. But watching the phenom that is Shaun White, who makes it look so easy you almost believe that you can do it too. This boy is so talented is ridiculous. He fell during his first run, but that didn't stop him from coming back and winning the gold medal. He did a trick called the "Double McTwist" and we all went crazy!! That was one of the craziest tricks I had ever seen. The texting between me and Michelle was crazy for about a hour HAHAHAHA(gotta love technology). Gotta say last night was a great night of history making moments. I was sad though that I missed the first Black ice skating couple in duos(they are from France).

Black History Month Facts

On this day February 18, in 1931 the great author&Pultizer Prize winner Toni Morrison was born in Ohio.
In 1867, an institution in Augusta, GA was founded, which was later named Morehouse College once it relocated to Atlanta. One of the great HBCUs for men.
In 1688, the first formal protest against slavery was organized by Quakers in Germantown, PA. The Germantown Protest denounced slavery and the slave trade.

(Source: www.blackfacts.com).
Educate yourself people!!

Eye Candy#11

Okay Ladies here is the eye candy pick for today....I had to represent for the West Coast and the City of LA by introducing Nipsey Hussle to the eye candy segment of sistasnthecity. Ermias Asghedom (his real name; I believe is mixed with West African)aka Nipsey is the eptimoe of what LA is all about. From the way he walks&talks to his affiliation with the streets; He is a true Lost Angel. He is a rapper who hails (and reps to the fullest) from Crenshaw and Slauson Ave. He is a true gangsta, thug, whatever you wanna call him Ladies. Just a side note: One night the Sistas were in the club and I saw Nipsey Hussle, so I went up to him and said "Aren't you Nipsey, Nipsey Russle??" He looked at me with a big smile and started to laugh so hard, after a few seconds I realized what I said and started laughing too. He just looked at me and said "Nah baby it's Hussle, Nipsey Hussle". The infatuation took off from there. If ya don't know now you know what the West can offer a sista. Some times were need a thug in our life, they gotta have love too. Trust me Ladies, he is easy on the eyes; long braids&tats and Like Tupac said "Thug Passion" just like I like them (LOL). "You already know what it is"
GOOD LAWD!!!! Thank you LAWD for blessing the Earth and our eyes with this beautiful creature that you created.
ENJOY LADIES...and if ya see him on the streets of LA tell him you saw him on the blog!!

Smoochez
RONI

GOOD LAWD....

This has to be one of the best videos showcasing eye candy at its best...this video that Destiny's Child(RIP the group)did encompasses all what an eye candy is all about..different looks, shapes, bodies, cities, races, etc etc I can go on and on and on, but I think the video says it all....What a way to end the day..GOOD LAWD!! Thank you LAWD for blessing the Earth and our eyes with these beautiful creatures that you created. Ladies pick your jaws up and wipe your mouth LOL.. Who doesn't need a solider??!!
ENJOY
RONI

My Journey as a Marriage and Family Therapist To Be..

I decided while driving home from my traineeship office that I should blog every now and again about my journey from grad student to Marriage and Family Therapist trainee. Currently I am in grad school and recently started my traineeship. I am working with the senior population, which is a drastic change for me. I have always worked with children, but decided to expand my experiences and knowledge. Today was my first official day and I must say I was filled with excitement, anxiety, nervousness, pride and confidence. My day consisted of calling my clients, which were assigned to be about 2 weeks ago. When I was assigned my clients I was wondering if they were Black , but did not want to assume that they would be. But then I started to think after I found out that they were Black, that I always said I would prefer a Black therapist, so why wouldn't someone else think the same(just needed to put that out there lol). As I read their charts I realized that they preferred a Black therapist LOL. After contacting my clients and setting up my session appointments I had to go to disposition, which this week was a presentation from an organization that specializes in helping people with mental illnesses and their parents, families and caregivers with coping skills to deal with their hardships, communication skills building and maintaining their healthy relationships. Listening to their stories was somewhat emotional and I was glad to hear what the parents and families had to deal with compared to us professional who help them for a hour or so. After an hour of that I had to immediately go into group supervision. I must say that I felt a little intimidated at the beginning of group because I was the new one and did not know really what was expected of the group or I. But my supervisor(which I was lucky to have the pleasure of choosing)was so inviting and warm. After the introductions I felt at ease and welcomed. As I sat and listened to my group members discussing their clients, I felt a sense of accomplishment and pride. The little girl who was once lost has finally found her way and is on the right path to becoming a THERAPIST. As I continue my journey; hopefully graduating after another 2 quarters of school, honing my therapist skills and building my experience and confidence level I will continue to use this blog as an outlet of sorts(while maintaining privacy, of course). I look forward to my future as a therapist in training and seeing what that has to offer me. I know that I am capable of handling anything with God, the support of my family and friends(and an occasional glass of wine LOL). I am so thankful that my mother instilled in me the importance of an education and encouraged me whenever I was down to continue to climb that ladder. Next is my doctorate program....You know a sista can't stop once she gets started...

Roni
Hope this encourages one or some to continue fighting the fight because in the end the reward is worth it all the time.

Best Friends Come in All Shapes and Sizes....

I thought this was really cute.....



Tara and Bella are at the Elephant Sanctuary in Tennesse...



And Kareen has, Roni and Michelle!

Black History Month Facts

Today February 17, in 1967 Ronald De Voe; better known as Ronnie from New Edition and Bell Biv DeVoe was born in Boston, Mass.
In 1963, James Nathaniel Brown aka Jim Brown; Pro Football Player and now community activist was born in Georgia
In 1902, Opera singer Marian Anderson was born in Philadelphia
In 1891, the churn was invented by a Black inventor named A.C. Richardson
Celebrate Black History Month by educating yourself and others.

COMPUTER TELLS ALL---- TRUE STORY....

THIS IS A TRUE STORY! WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE IF YOUR FRIEND CALLED YOU WITH THIS?

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WATCH OUT CHICKS YOU MAY READ THINGS YOU DON'T WANT TO!!

SO I WOKE UP THIS MORNING WITH THIS SITUATION HEAVY ON THE MIND.

THE COMPUTER WILL GET YOU IN TROUBLE..

SO A MAN CHECKS HIS EMAILS AT HIS GIRLS HOUSE WHILE SHE'S AT WORK (NO THEY DON'T LIVE TOGETHER )SO I DON'T KNOW WHAT HE WAS THINKING IN THE FIRST PLACE.
THIS DUDE GETS A PHONE CALL AND RUNS OUT THE HOUSE FORGETTING TO CLOSE HIS EMAIL.

HIS WOMAN COMES HOME AND WHAT DOES SHE DO?? GET ON THE COMPUTER LONG AND BEHOLD HIS OPEN EMAILS RIGHT IN HER FACE. AS A WOMAN WE AUTOMATICALLY START READING "RIGHT !! RIGHT !! DID I MENTION THIS COUPLE HAS BEEN TOGETHER OVER 10 YEARS BUT AFTER READING NUMEROUS EMAILS SHE WASN'T THE ONLY ONE THAT'S BEEN HOLDING IT DOWN!!

THE EMAIL READ: THANKS FOR A BEAUTIFUL VALENTINES DAY BABY YOU NEVER SURPRISE ME AFTER 7 YEARS!!

NOW IN HER MIND SHE WAS LIKE I DIDN'T GET NO FLOWERS , CARD, DINNER , A DAY AT THE SPA, AND LONG-LASTING D , HE SAID HE WAS AT WORK ON VALENTINES DAY!!
THIS DUDE RIGHT HERE SPENT $500 WHICH WAS DEDUCTED FROM THEIR JOINT BANK ACCOUNT TO MAKE HIS MISTRESS VDAY BEAUTIFUL . TALK ABOUT EVIL THOUGHTS RUNNING THROUGH MY HEAD RIGHT NOW LMAO!!

NOW LADIES LIFT YOUR JAWS THAT'S 3 YEARS LESS THAN HIM AND HIS "TOP WOMAN" I'LL CALL HER IN THIS CASE!

NOW YOU KNOW THE FOLLOWING EMAILS GET MORE INTO DETAIL RAW SEX , SHOPPING SPREES, RENT PAID, TRIPS AND ADDITIONAL WOMEN
BUT TO HER SURPRISE SHE WAS ALSO SUCKING ANOTHER WOMAN'S BODILY FLUIDS BECAUSE THIS DUDE WAS COMING HOME HAVING SEX WITH THE 10 YR CHICK AFTER HAVING RAW SEX WITH THE 7YR CHICK (SAME NIGHT) .

NOW THE TEN YEAR CHICK DOESN'T KNOW WHAT TO DO BECAUSE SHE HAS THIS DUDE ON HER LIFE INSURANCE POLICY AND COMBINED BANK ACCOUNTS AND ON TOP OF THAT SHE IS SICK WITH CANCER. THIS DUDE IS HAVING HIS BOTTOM CHICK (7YR) GIVE HIM SYMPATHY BECAUSE HE'S TELLING HER HIS 10 YR CHICK IS SICK WITH CANCER AND HE HAS TO DRIVE HER AROUND, SHE HAS NO FRIENDS THAT WILL HELP JUST MAKING THE 10 YR CHICK LOOK HELPLESS AND VULNERABLE AND NEEDY.

LUCKILY NO KIDS BECAUSE IN THIS SITUATION IF IT WAS ME LIKE RONI STATES "I WOULD HAVE CAUGHT A CASE".

SEE BEING THE HUSTLA THAT I AM HIS POCKETS WOULD BE STRAIGHT EMPTY AND I WOULD DAMAGE HIS CREDITABILITY HE HAS IN THE COMMUNITY AND SKID ROW WOULD BE HIS NEW HOME AND ALL HIS BASKETBALL DREAMS WOULD BE SHATTERED.

THE MORAL OF THIS STORY IS LADIES NEVER PUT YOUR EGGS IN ONE BASKET, ALWAYS MAKE YOUR OWN MONEY , STAY SECURE WITHIN YOURSELF SO YOU STAY STRONG ENOUGH TO WALK OUT OF SITUATIONS LIKE THIS AND NEVER LOOK BACK , ALWAYS KEEP YOUR OWN PRIVATE BANK ACCOUNT, ALWAYS KEEP A BACK UP D*&K, AND MAKE SURE WHEN YOUR MAN COMES HOME CHECK THOSE BALLS SO YOU WONT BE TASTING SOMEONE ELSE'S ICING!! NOW THAT'S REAL TALK!!

SHELLS

Eye Candy#10

Good Morning Ladies,
Eye Candy#10 deserves to be on our list. He is no other than Antonio Sabato Jr. Antonio was born in Rome, Italy and is Italian and Jewish. I think most might remember him(and his body)from being a Calvin Klein underwear model and Janet Jackson's "Love Will Never Do Without You" video. He's also been on General Hospital, Melrose Place, The Bold and The Beautiful and his own reality show on VH1 "My Antonio". Needless to say this man has the body of a "Greek God". And his face is chiseled like a statue that would be found in one of Italy's famed museums/no flaws ladies and those dimples make a sista wanna learn Italian: bacilo(means kiss me). GOOD LAWD!! Thank you LAWD for blessing the Earth and our eyes with this beautiful creature that you created. CIAO BELLO(goodbye handsome).
ENJOY LADIES....

In a Perfect World...

I AM Confident, I AM Secure, I AM Spiritual, I AM Humble, I AM Creative, I AM a Blessed Woman

He will respect me and not be intimidated by who I AM-(a Confident, Secure, Spiritual, Humble, Creative and a Blessed Woman.) We would exchange intellectual conversation, share our likes dislikes and be honest about our strengths, weakness and insecurities. He would share the truth about his past and present life chooses. All this from a distance, with No pressure, with No expectation….
And I will have the strength and courage to accept HIM...
I will accept Him for Who HE is- a connection with a purpose. I will not allow my ego to complicate any part of this exchange, being secure in knowing that it is what it is. I will allow the universe and who I AM- (A Confident, Secure, Spiritual, Humble, Creative and Blessed Woman) to create its divine purpose. Letting Father/ Mother God intercede… No mind wandering, No forcing my ideal, Allowing it to just BE!

In a Perfect World…..

I AM Confident, I AM Secure, I AM Spiritual, I AM Humble, I AM Creative, I AM a Blessed Woman

Ladies, You are a perfect being accept nothing less then perfection!

Written by-Kareen, Powered by the Divine 2/16/2010

The Real First Black President..

Well that saying you are never to old to learn something new is so true..as I sit here watching the Winter Olympics and web browsing I stumbled upon an article about the first Black President John Hanson. John Hanson, who some say was a Moor was the President before the Constitution. He served as President from 1781-1782. Some said he was white because they wanted to deny his blackness. He declared the fourth Thursday of November as Thanksgiving Day. He also established the first Treasury Department and the Foreign Affairs Department. He was one of George Washington's best friends. If you Google his name you will find that he was, not only the First President, but the First Black President. As a Pan African Studies major student I did not even know this nor was I taught this. This I will pass on to others.
This was such a great Black History Month Fact and some say staying up late doesn't do you any good..Bah Humbug LOL

Eye Candy---- What is this about?

To Our Faithful Followers:



We would first like to thank everyone for their love and support.
Thanks You Soooooo Much!!!!
We have gotten an amazing response about our Eye Candy Segment.
We dont want to limit our selection to celebrities or people that we come in contact. This is intended to celebrate FINEEEEEEEE all over the world.

So we would like to reach out to our followers, if you come across some EYE Candy, ( at the grocery store, the library the gym, where ever) please send us a photo and details of who and why this person should be considered for our Eye Candy Segment...

Submissions will be judged on the following- sexual attractiveness, cuteness, and physique, tattoos a plus..... Please see detailed definition below...

Let's have some fun!!!!!!

email: sistasnthecity@gmail.com

The Sistas Xxoxoxoxox

PS: Eye Candy #9 is on reserve.. Wink, Hint.....

Eye Candy Defined

A common slang term for visually appealing persons or effects used to draw mass attention is eye candy.^[2] The implication is that they are eye-catching in a superficial fashion, for example due to adding an element of sexuality. Like actual "candy" this addition is seen to be neither nutritious nor substantial, but rather provides a potentially addictive appeal which will sustain the attention of a wider audience, possibly despite their better nature.

The term is also used to refer to actors or actresses perceived to have been cast primarily for the visual enjoyment of the audience, e.g. for their sex appeal. Various novels, articles, and stories have used this slang term to show a physical attraction one person has toward another.^{[citation needed]}

Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attractiveness

Eye Candy#8

Today's eye candy is none other than the sexy, dark and handsome brotha from across the pond Idrissa Akuna better known as Idris Elba. Idris might be best known as "Stringer Bell" from The Wire. He has starred in many tv shows and films; Daddy's Little Girls, Rock n Rolla, Obsessed and Sometimes in April just to name a few. He is also a DJ going by the name DJ Driis (www.myspace.com/hevlar_recordings). "Let your guard down, let this brother enter your private garden...I won't hurt ya I won't hurt ya girl" is a line from one of his songs..OH MY!!!!
His looks are killer and so is that accent..GOOD LAWD!!
Thank you LAWD for blessing the Earth and our eyes with this beautiful creature that you created.
This is definitely one of the eye candies that has left me speechless, in a good way!!
It was definitely a task for me to pick through all the pictures I found, hope you ladies like these!

I will Persist Until ...

This was a poem that I was given in High School. It has BEEN a source of inspiration all these years..... Enjoy, KG

I Will Persist Until I Succeed:

By Og Mandino


I will until i succeed

In the Orient young bulls are tested for the fight arena in a certain manner. Each is bought to the ring and allowed to attack a picador who pricks them with a lance. The bravery of each bull is then rated with care according to the number of times he demonstrates his willingness to charge in spite of the sting of the blade. Henceforth will I recognize that each day I am tested by life in like manner. If I persist, if I continue to charge forward, I will succeed.

I will persist until I succeed.

I was not delivered unto this world in defeat, nor does failure course in my veins. I am not a sheep waiting to be prodded by my shepherd. I am a lion and I refuse to talk, to walk, to sleep with the sheep. I will hear not those who weep and complain, for their disease is contagious. Let them join the sheep. The slaughterhouse of failure is not my destiny.

I will persist until I succeed.

The prizes of life are at the end of each journey, not near the beginning; and it is not given to me to know how many steps are necessary in order to reach my goal. Failure I may still encounter at the thousandth step, yet success hides behind the next bend in the road. Never will I know how close it lies unless I turn the corner.

Always will I take another step. If that is of no avail I will take another, and yet another. In truth one step at a time is not too difficult.

I will persist until I succeed.

Henceforth, I will consider each day's effort as but one blow of my blade against a mighty oak. The first blow may cause not a tremor in the wood, nor the second, nor the third. Each blow, of itself, may be trifling, and seem of no consequence. Yet from childish swipes the oak will eventually tumble. So it will be with my efforts of today.

I will be liken to the rain drop which washes away the mountain; the ant who devours a tiger; the star which brightens the earth; the slave who builds a pyramid. I will build my castle one brick at a time for I know that small attempts, repeated, will complete any undertaking.

I will persist until I succeed.

I will never consider defeat and I will remove from my vocabulary such words and phrases as quit, cannot, unable, impossible, out of the question, improbable, failure, unworkable, hopeless, and retreat; for they are the words of fools. I will avoid despair but if this disease of the mind should infect me then I will work on in despair. I will toil and I will endure. I will ignore the obstacles at my feet and keep my eyes on the goals above my head, for I know that where dry desert ends, green grass grows.

I will persist until I succeed.

I will remember the ancient law of averages and I will bend it to my good. I will persist with knowledge that each failure to sell will increase my chance of success at the next attempt. Each nay I hear will bring me closer to the sound of yes. Each frown I meet only prepares me for the smile to come. Each misfortune I encounter will carry in it the seed of tomorrow's good luck. I must have the night to appreciate the day. I must fail often to succeed only once.

I will persist until I succeed.

I will try, and try, and try again. Each obstacle I will consider as a mere detour to my goal and a challenge to my profession. I will persist and develop my skills as the mariner develops his, by learning to ride out the wrath of each storm.

I will persist until I succeed.

Henceforth, I will learn and apply another secret of those who excel in my work. When each day is ended, not regarding whether it has been a success or failure, I will attempt to achieve one more sale. When my thoughts beckon my tired body homeward I will resist the temptation to depart. I will try again. I will make one more attempt to close with victory, and if that fails I will make another. Never will I allow any day to end with a failure. Thus will I plant the seed of tomorrow's success and gain an insurmountable advantage over those who cease their labor at a prescribed time. When other cease their struggle, then mine will begin, and my harvest will be full.

I will persist until I succeed.

Nor will I allow yesterday's success to lull me into today's complacency, for this is the great foundation of failure. I will forget the happenings of the day that is gone, whether they were good or bad, and greet the new sun with confidence that this will be the best day of my life.

So long as there is breath in me, that long will I persist. For now I know one of the greatest principles of success; if I persist long enough I will win.

I Will Persist. I Will Win.

THE HUSTLAS OUTLOOK ON BEING SINGLE

AS I SIT HERE TODAY WONDERING WHAT MY LIFE WOULD BE LIKE WITH A CHILD AND A HUSBAND I JUST SEE TORTURE FOR ME. ITS NOT LIKE I'VE BEEN SINGLE ALL MY LIFE SO I KNOW THE DEDICATION IT TAKES FROM ONE PERSON TO ANOTHER TO MAKE IT WORK. SOME PEOPLE MIGHT SAY I'M BITTER BUT HELL NO NOT BITTER JUST CAUTIOUS. I WAS IN A TWELVE YEAR RELATIONSHIP WITH MY HIGH SCHOOL SWEETHEART ROCKY AND THEN WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH AN OLDER GENTLEMAN THAT I STILL LOVE TODAY (KINDA LIKE A FATHER FIGURE). I DIDN'T WANT TO MENTION IT BUT THIS WAS THE ICING ON THE CAKE. I MOVED TO YPSILANTI MICHIGAN WITH A CLOSE FRIEND OF MINE AND MET THIS GUY THAT HAD FIVE KIDS WHOA WHAT WAS I THINKING. AS TIME WENT ON I STARTED BECOMING A MOTHER FIGURE TO HIS KIDS AND HE STARTED BECOMING A CHEATING WHORE COME TO FIND OUT NOT ONLY WAS HE CHEATING BUT HE WAS CHEATING WITH THE BABIES MAMAS WTF!! THE MENTAL AND PHYSICAL ABUSE STARTED PLAYING A HUGE ROLE IN HIM TRYING TO CONTROL AND CONFINE MY BRAIN TO BELIEVE HE WAS THE ONLY FOR ME.

BUT ONE DAY I JUST STRIPPED HIS SAFE OF NOTHING AND BOUGHT MY TAIL BACK TO CALIFORNIA. YES BITTER IN THE BEGINNING BUT I TRAINED MYSELF TO LOVE MY SELF ALL OVER AGAIN AND NOT DWELL ON THE PAST BUT YOU KNOW THE PAST WILL ALWAYS FOLLOW YOU . I'M DETERMINED TO BECOME A BETTER WOMAN AND REALLY NOT SETTLE FOR LESS. I'M SINGLE BECAUSE I CHOOSE TO BE AND NOT BY OTHER CIRCUMSTANCES (LIKE NO ONE CHOOSING ME ) ARE YOU KIDDING GUYS LMAO! I CHOOSE TO HAVE MALE FRIENDS AND REAL MALE FRIENDS THAT APPRECIATE ME FOR THE ADVICE THAT I GIVE TO HELP THEM IN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS SO I LEARN A LOT FROM THE MALE SPECIES AND SOMETIMES THE THINGS THEY REQUIRE FROM A WOMAN MAYBE A LIL MUCH FOR ME . CLEAN THE DISHES, TAKE OUT THE TRASH, WHERE YOU GOING, WHEN YOU COMING BACK, WASH MY CLOTHES, FIX ME DINNER ,TAKE CARE OF MY KIDS( NOT OURS BUT MY OTHER KIDS) HUH!! OH AND PLENTY OTHER THINGS THAT I CAN GO ON AND ON ABOUT.

I HAVE ALL THE QUALITIES OF A REAL WOMAN BUT WHEN YOU LIVE IN CALI , MEN WANT YOU FOR YOUR OUTER APPEARANCE AND I JUST DON'T CATER TO THAT BS BUT I LOVE FOOTBALL SPORTS LOVE TO COOK MASSAGE MAYBE PICK YOUR PIMPLES LOL BUT THAT'S ABOUT ALL.

I COME TO HOME TO A QUIET HOUSE MAKE MY OWN MONEY TAKE CARE OF MY OWN BILLS AND LIVE A LIFE WITH NO QUESTIONS ASKED. I ENJOY BEING BY MYSELF LIVING MY LIFE AND WHOEVER JUDGES ME AND FEELS LIKE I'M LESS THAN A WOMEN BECAUSE I DON'T HAVE A STEADY MAN BELIEVE ME THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT THERE THAT HAVE A MAN AND STILL FEEL LONELY AND UNAPPRECIATED. I KNOW I'LL NEVER BE SINGLE I HAVE FRIENDS AND FAMILY THAT WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY LIFE AND A COUPLE OF D'S THAT WILL NEVER GO ANYWHERE.

GOD PLACED YOU HERE BY YOURSELF AND YOU WILL EXIT BY YOURSELF

HOLLA

SHELLY