Friday, March 26, 2010

SistaNtheCity #4- Sasha Fierce




Surrogant Mother/ Dog Rescue/ the Dog Whisper



This past week a 6 week old pitbull puppy ended up in my care. I was thrown into the position of trying to find her a home. I already have a dog Bailey of 9 years and I was not at all prepared to take on a puppy.
I had recently went to the pound with my uncle to find him a new Dog. There were tons of PITS there, it completely broke my heart. So my life for two days became focused on finding her a home.
I had gotten kind of attached to her in that short period of time but I also knew I couldn't keep her. Then some BS went down Read "I thought you where Real" for details. To keep things positive I found her a home, (Sigh of Relief). I didn't think it would be so stressful but it all worked out for the good. She is with someone close to the family so I will be able to keep up with her.



That said, please support animal rescues.
Although they are animals they still have been blessed with the gift of life and are deserving of a lot of LOVE.


Support: Mollys Mutts and Meows, Bama Bully Rescue and your local animal Shelter.


Here are some fun Pictures of Sasha Enjoy





Get me out of the DAMN BOX!!!






Fast Asleep....ZZZZZZZZ, Behind the Scenes

Thursday, March 25, 2010

Bush Don't Like Black People- "Kanye West" Here's Proof





I found this posted on facebook today and this has really thrown me off a little bit. My initial reaction was anger and then just kinda of sad. I have not been overly passionate about the BUSHomics and politics over the years. Katrina, the Economy, the WAR, Crack his wrap sheet is pretty intense.
The Cameras Rolling, this clip says a whole lot more about this Man...
It is not my place to judge so I will leave you all with this.

The Common thread we all share as human beings on this planet is that we are all ALIVE at this moment in time....WE are ALL One.. It is fascinating how a within a split second that truth is soo quickly forgotten.

Love and Light,

KG









The Greeting (Source: http://www.tolerance.kataweb.it/eng/cap_tre/uno/esempi_tre.html)

All cultures have developed specific rituals that accompany the commencement and the termination of a social relationship. Greetings vary from one culture to another, from a nod of the head to rubbing noses, from the open hand to a variety of kisses and hugs, also in accordance with the kind of relationship in force between the persons involved in the interaction.

In Western countries, the handshake is one of the most common forms of greeting, at least between adults. When we meet people, and we offer a handshake, we communicate our willingness to come into contact with them and our preparedness to start up a friendly interaction. In olden times people used to hold out an open hand to show that they were not concealing a weapon and therefore did not wish to attack the person to whom they were holding out their hand. Animals also understand signs of friendship: for example, dogs often roll over onto their backs to show that they want to be petted – an action that also tells us that we enjoy the animal’s trust as it is exposing its most vulnerable part to us.

Let’s pause for a moment to look more closely at the social significance of the handshake. The distance that separates us from the other person is slight enough to allow us to observe his or her face from close up, to smell his/her breath and even his/her body odour. Through hand contact we admit this person into our personal space – and, naturally, the other person does the same thing for us. Skin contact involves an exchange of body fluids, in the form of sweat (there are cultures in which this exchange of fluids is reinforced by the act of spitting on the hand before proffering it).

The strength of the handshake conveys to the other an indication of our own physical energy (and there are cultural rules that associate various nuances of meaning with the various kinds of handshake). The open palm of the hand, a soft and private zone of the body that we normally keep turned towards ourselves, is offered to the other almost in sign of surrender. In this way we express mutual confidence in the good intentions we harbour in the other’s regard, and it is no accident that a handshake is the way in which we generally seal a promise.

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

I thought you were REAL.....


You expected someone to act a certain way because you've know them for years but I guess that shit don't count I'm just keeeping it real you really have to hang with someone to actually know the real deal because the shit my homegirl went through with someone we know was some Bullshit
I hope I don't sound kinda LOONEY!!!!!!
Since I ain't mentioned no names and shit !!!
But before I sound like a mad B$^ch ill just let it ride!
People sometime should keep their mouth shut when its come to hollering I'M REAL Real in whose eyes and have you picked up a dictionary lately Because I seen your face next to SUSPECT !!
Someone that claims their real and end up being Phony than a MF!!!!! Shots to my real Niggas in Charge
A Hustla got to keep it real sometimes !!!!!
Real people apologize for their wrong doing !!!
You Got the number make that Call FOOL!!!!!
Shelly Shells
(image sourced from yahoo image search)

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

I'm not understanding the artist on this one....


Times Square Mural Reinforces Stereotypes of Black, Latina Women

By Jeff Mays on Mar 22nd 2010 11:33AM
Filed under: News, Race and Civil Rights

Times Square Mural Offends

I'm all for showing Black and Latina women who do not fit the traditional stereotype of being beautiful. I also support the rights of artists to be creative and interpretive. The mural at Times Square in New York City, though, misses the mark on both fronts.

Instead of showing the "non-traditional" beauty of Black, Latina and Caribbean women, I see two women on a couch who look like prostitutes. One has on hooker-type boots, with big gold doorknocker earrings and saggy breasts. The other, wearing a purple dress, is bent over and looks like she's "dropping it like it's hot" for a Lil' Wayne video. These images are anything but empowering. They represent the worst stereotypes about Black and Latina women.

"I want to recognize that these women, especially Caribbean women, dress like this and they should be respected in society the same way women with, like, briefcases or cell phones [are]," the artist Sofia Maldonado told My Fox New York.

Unfortunately, she has failed with the two images that I saw."What I want to see is something that motivates me, that makes me want to be more than what I am. When I look at these pictures, do I reaaly want to be this when I grow up?" Carmine Cologne, an engineer, told My Fox NewYork.

Other women agree. New York City Black Professionals and Phenomenal Women Group Inc. have staged a small protest and called for the head of the Times Square Alliance to remove the mural.

Another image of a young girl riding a skateboard doesn't seem as bad but the young lady depicted is fully clothed. Black and Latina women already face the stereotype that they are loud, over-sexualized beings with nothing but attitude and sharp head movements for anyone who even looks at them for too long.

Images that would have broken the stereotype are ones that I see in my Harlem neighborhood every day.

I see women dressed professionally heading to work.

I see women in medical scrubs and white jackets heading to Harlem hospital.

I see home health aides caring for our sick and elderly parents and grandparents.

I see women walking their children to school.

I see a Black woman police officer in a crisp blue uniform.

I see women entrepreneurs who own restaurants, salons and flower shops.

I see a Black woman lawyer with her own small practice.

I see a female token booth clerk.

These women are the backbone of the Black and Latino communities. With too many men shirking their responsibilities as husbands and fathers, Black and Latina women have filled the void.

These are the images I see in my diverse neighborhood. I'm not sure what Maldonado is looking at.

Why would you expect people to respect images like this?? I do not respect a prostitute or any other stereotype of a Black or Latin woman..I thought we were trying to shed these images of woman?? I understand the point about Black and Latino woman being the backbone of the communities due to the lack of responsible men but these are not the images that our children need to see or believe in..they have other options in life...I'm just saying....

You Just Never Know.....


Highlight of My Sunday!!

So yesterday I went to a NBA game with my Uncle
Man was that the shit !!
Just me and my Uncle I kind of
felt like a kid again like he
was coming to pick me up to take me to the
park and swing LOL
So Sensitive Sometimes Shells cut it out!!
My Uncle has always been a father figure to me
he just don't know that I was his little spoiled child!
Me and my girl cousins just spoiled!!!!
But wait we went to the La Clippers and Sacramento Kings Game
I thought it would be a great game but even after the first
Clippers were losing so I got to feast my eyes on something SCRUMPTIOUS!!
Luckily my cousin Westcoast Willi came and rescued me LAWD
talk bout some EYECANDY he bought to the table!!!!!!
Got the warnings already but didn't think I was going to be drooling at the mouth
A Little bit extreme a HUSTLA doesn't never drool
We went into the Skybox and was enjoying life!!
Talk about luscious lips perfect skin complexion,
Talk about invading someone's space but I don't think he minded LOL
Damn I was all in his mouth some pretty ass teeth too
Lawd Ladies don't be afraid to speak up for what you want
You never question Who You Are, Always Stay Confident Within Yourself
Be secure that whatever you want you can get !!
Hopefully I did LMAO!!

Stay Tuned !!

Shells
A great start to a beautiful weekend.

Random Thought



If love is what everyone is searching and longing for...why does it have to be so complicated?? shouldn't it be easy?? i guess that saying is true that some things are worth fighting for....but how much fighting is one willing to do?? you gotta take care of you first right?? so if fighting for the love is affecting you then what does one do?? LOVE is a four letter word but it is so complicated..but why?? do we as humans make it more complicated than what it is or should be?? LOVE has so many meanings depending on who you are, how you were raised, where you are from and what you believe in. Can one definition of love be the "universal" right definition for everyone?? Hell nah!! that's what make this little 4 letter word so unique and abstract. I don't know why this came into my mind maybe it was because of the love i saw between two people today; one being a new client..there love was no conventional but who's to say it wasn't to them..if I asked them what love meant to them what would be there definition? I know that it would have been totally different from mine..LOVE is just what I stated earlier...a four letter word that is so complicated.....



Roni
(image from oliviahousephotography from yahoo image search engine)

Friday, March 19, 2010

IT'S OVER


People just don't freaking get it
If you get the voice mail message every time you call you should know I don't want to be bothered, some old friends are exactly that for a reason !!
YOU DIG!!
In the past not in the future
Look I think you rather get the voice mail rather to hear what I have to tell you there's always a good reason people get eliminated from my life and its usually because being real is a quality you just don't practice lmao
Damn if I had a reject option button for text so I wouldn't have to read you plead and beg and interrogate me on why your all of a sudden. Non existent.
Just look at yourself and not your cover mf but your soul and spirit it's a damn book I already read and written a new chapter about
Seems like its not a great ending for you!!
But a new beginning for me
You have been exiled.
And for those of you that question am I talking about you call my phone you'll get your answer lol
Some friends and people you have to let go or your spirit won't grow !!

Shells
(image sourced from yahoo image search)

Thursday, March 18, 2010

Sistas....a movie worth seeing..


Flower in the Desert: Waris Dirie and her Fight against Female Circumcision

By Claire Sulmers on Mar 18th 2010 3:45AM
Filed under: Fashion News

Ex-model Waris Dirie has emerged as a modern day female rights crusader, protesting against female circumcision and cruelty against women:
The subject is close to Dirie's heart. At the young age of 3, she was subjected to the procedure, being cut by a worn razor and sewn up with a thorn and thread in the deserts of Somalia. In an article in the Times Online, she said, "It was very disturbing and emotional...It is a barbaric crime [and] incredible it is still happening now in the 21st century."

Later, Dirie fled and found herself in London where, after being discovered by a photographer, she became an international supermodel. Her story comes to cinematic life in the film, 'Flower in the Desert' starring fellow model Liya Kebede.



Dirie, a United Nations special ambassador and recipient of numerous humanitarian awards, hopes the film will be shown all over the world as a remonstration against female circumcision.

'Flower in the Desert' or 'Fleur du Désert' debuted in France a week ago, and will be coming to a theater near you.
http://www.desertflower-movie.com/
(excerpt taken from Blackvoices on AOL)

Eye Candy#24




Today's eye candy I had no idea existed until I saw him in the movie "Brooklyn's Finest" as a rookie cop....Officer arrest me LOL!!!! Jesse Williams is Swedish and Black and has an African American Studies degree from Temple University (same BA I got HEY!!!! LOL)and was a teacher...I would love to serve detention with him after school. I guess he is famous for his Grey's Anatomy role as Dr. Jackson Avery (Michelle has probably seen him since that is one of her shows haha). He was also the love interest in Rhianna's Russian Roulette...How I have never seen this lovely creature before is a mystery to me, but I am so glad that I found him today. Ladies this boy is FINNNNNNNNNNNNEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!! With his olive tanned skin, those eyes facial hair and those freckles..he looks good!!!!.and he's educated what more can a sista hope and dream for???????.he can play doctor with this sista anytime!! GOOD LAWD!!
Thank you LAWD for blessing the Earth and our eyes with this beautiful creature that you created.

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

A Thousand Suns/ Global Oneness Project

A Thousand Suns tells the story of the Gamo Highlands of the African Rift Valley and the unique worldview held by the people of the region. This isolated area has remained remarkably intact both biologically and culturally. It is one of the most densely populated rural regions of Africa yet its people have been farming sustainably for 10,000 years. Shot in Ethiopia, New York and Kenya, the film explores the modern world's untenable sense of separation from and superiority over nature and how the interconnected worldview of the Gamo people is fundamental in achieving long-term sustainability, both in the region and beyond.

http://www.globalonenessproject.org/videos/athousandsuns

Enjoy,

KG

Sunday, March 14, 2010

Doing the Most Good...Continued...












For two consecutive weekends, I have invested my time in helping others. Last weekend, I volunteered for RYLA a three day leadership camp. I was a group facilitator and participated in various workshops and activities that supported leadership and self awareness of high school students from various areas of Los Angeles County.

Friday, Roni and I participated in the 1 million meals drive for Haiti put together by the Salvation Army and the NuMana Organization. We helped packaged food the contents included, Soy, Vitamins and Seasoning Mix, Dried Vegetables and Rice. Yes, all in that order. .

Including Roni and I there were about 9 people on our assembly line.





(2) Scooping the contents through a funnel
(1) Held the bag
(2) Weighed the bags to ensure it weighed between 3.90-3.92 oz
(2) Sealed the bags
(2) Boxed the food








The process was seamless. There were volunteers that ensured we had enough supplies to keep the system going. I swear we went through about 500 pounds of rice.


In between scoops (it was hard to stay focused at times), I attempted to try and understand who all was responsible for bringing this unique group of people together in this random warehouse in the middle of East LA.






The Numana Organization was responsible for supplying the goods, supplies and the process for packaging the food. The Salvation Army provided the facility and the Man Power/ Volunteers.
I overheard a few of the volunteers talking about what Numana means. In Exodus chapter 16, when Moses and the Israelites had been freed and starving, looking for food, God provided for them Manna Bread and Quail . The Israelites asked Moses what this food was that came from the heavens. In response it was said, Just know that it is good for you. The Numana Organization was named symbolic of this story, Numana= “New” Manna. Another volunteer chimed in and explained, that because of logistic issues in Haiti and the difficulty of getting supplies to the people the first drop was made from the sky. What an amazing coincidence?


Thus far they have provided over 5,000,000 meals to Haiti. This drive was the first event of its kind on the Western Region thus far.

By trial and error they learned that dropping the food might not have been the best for the desperate Haitian people in the wake of such extreme devastation. All though well intended it evoked extreme chaos on the ground below. Technology provided a solution. UPS, “what can Brown do for you” provided the Salvation Army with a tracking system and database to better streamline the process and has since been implemented. The families are given a card that they can swipe that identifies who they are, how many people in their family and the last time they received food…. (The concept is dope, but kinda has a Mark of the Beast and a means of control feel to me. But Im gonna stay focused… That is a whole other topic) The Salvation Army is now able to monitor how often someone has received food and ensure families needs are getting meet and the food is rationed properly.


So how has all of this made me feel? That is a loaded question. Answer: One simple email led to a very spiritual and inspiring experience. It is just that simple. I have always been one who thought I understood the power of service and sisterhood/brotherhood. I do have Charity tattooed on my forearm. I didn’t know that three hours would take things to a whole other level.

This experience pulled on a very unselfish part of my essence that I can not ignore from this point forward.
How can I use my talents and resources to help those in need? Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, food, clothing and shelter seem overwhelmingly important, in my community, in my country and around the world.

It was also very great to see organizations inspire individuals to do their greatest Good.
It has evoked a natural High and I am definitely looking forward to my next Fix…


My Greatest work is Charity…. When He/God speaks you Must Listen!


KG






























Friday, March 12, 2010

"Doing the Most Good"



Kareen and I had the honor and pleasure of volunteering some of our time to help Numana and the Salvation Army during their "A Million Meals for Haiti" event. The goal for this weekend is to package a million meals that will be delivered to Haiti. We learned that this food event has been taking place since January and so far over 5 million meals have been delivered. We were assigned to a table that consisted of 5-6 other people; 4 buckets of ingredients, bags to be filled with the meals, scales to weigh each packaged meal to make sure it was the right about for 6 meal servings per bag, vacuum sealers, boxes, tape and did I mention the people to make this all happen?? I must say I had an amazing time. The 3 hours that we spent making these meals flew by...I guess that's because we were "doing the most good". The warehouse was full of people volunteering their time, bodies, smiles and strengths to make this event successful. Our table consisted of mostly Salvation Army workers, but nonetheless they were dedicated like we were. At the end of our shift we had packaged countless meals, were dusty, eyes burning, the smell of chicken and seasonings filled our noses and our bodies were aching a little, but it was all worth it. To know that we were providing Haitians with healthy and nutritious meals was worth it all!! One of the Salvation Army ministers that we had the pleasure of working with told the story of the name Numana, but I couldn't hear her, but Kareen did (she will blog about it). I had an amazing, blessed and heart opening experience that I will never forget. I will continue to make an effort to volunteer as long as I am physically able too. I am thankful for this experience and feel an obligation, but yet an honor to share it with you. If you have never volunteered or haven't done it in a while..find an organization (there are plenty out there) and do it. Here is some info about Numana if you care to volunteer with them; what a great effort and impact they are making in and for Haiti. Remember a little goes a long way!!



The Mission of Numana
is to empower you to save the starving.

We do this by facilitating Packaging Events at which volunteers package four simple ingredients in to small plastic bags.

We are different because we construct our concept so the sponsor of the event gets the credit, not Numana. This event easily attracts publicity and all of the publicity will be directed towards the sponsor.

Our meals have four different ingredients: rice, soy, freeze-dried vegetables, chicken flavoring along with 21 vitamins targeted to help the immune system.

The cost of each life-sustaining meal is only 30 cents each. Built into the cost of the meals are all the ingredients, packaging, administration, and international shipping of the food. Funding streams vary according to events.

Our Partner, Salvation Army World Services has agreed to deliver our meals - primarily to school feeding programs in the most impoverished areas of the world. The U.N.'s research has shown that the most effective way to address their Number One Millennium Development Goal (world hunger), is to implement school feeding programs. They will also use these meals in emergency relief situations as the need arises.

Eye Candy#23





Today's eye candy is making "funny the new sexy" (line they used on rollingout.com when they did an article about him). He comes from a large family and most of them are in the entertainment field. Mr. Marlon Wayans was born and raised in New York in a Jehovah Witness household. He is an actor, producer, comedian, writer and director. With so many movies, tv shows and comedy gigs under his belt you would think that he could do no more, but this brother is the epitome of one of the hardest working men in Hollywood and he's a twitter fanatic lol!! Personally I have been "eye-dicted"(a word I just made up to show my addiction to some of these eye candies LOL) since I first saw him in "Mo Money" but the "eye-diction" increased during the seasons of "The Wayans Bros". Mr. Wayans is funny, but his looks can make a sista melt; from his smile to his beautiful skin to his eyebrows (yes this sista has a thang for eyebrows I don't know why) LAWD LAWD LAWD!! He is like the perfect man: can make a sista laugh, cry and fall in love all at the same time!!!!Did yall see him in "G.I. Joe"?? OMG the screen when he has his shirt off!! A sista almost fall off her chair!! GOOD LAWD!!
Thank you LAWD for blessing the Earth and our eyes with this beautiful creature that you created.
(images sourced from rollingout.com and yahoo image search engine)

Thursday, March 11, 2010

Eye Candy#22




Today's eye candy is tall, dark and handsome...sistas he looks good enough to eat!!!! He first came on the scene singing in the bus on the Coca Cola commercial..mmmmmmm.......I think that's when we all fell in love with, not only with his looks but that voice too!!!! Tyrese Gibson was born and raised in LA; Watts California that is...so you know he give that hood love that us sistas love so much!!!! Not only his he good looking, he can sing and act. My favorite movie of his is "Baby Boy" JODY JODY JODY GOOD LAWD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! "Signs of Making Love and Sweet Lady are my fav songs. I wish he could whisper those lyrics into my ears. This brotha makes a sista think bad thoughts just by looking at him. He makes a sista speechless for real!!!! OH LAWD did I mention his body and those tats??!!And that SMILE??!!!!! Just look at the pictures and if ya never liked chocolate before you will be an addict now LOL...GOOD LAWD!!
Thank you LAWD for blessing the Earth and our eyes with this beautiful creature that you created.
(images taken from yahoo image search engine)

Scorpion Queen-Ladies we get it in no matter the species!

The intro was enough for me.... In someways I can relate....
Scorpio: check, African Queen: check, Biological Clock is ticking: check


Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Apple Don't Fall Far From The Tree LOL



Ok so now I realize what people mean when they say you act just like your parents
Well I figured out the clowning sarcastic me gets that shit from my mom so the other day she came to visit me and my friend pf came over so my mom start telling this brother oh wow your nice looking nice beautiful black skin nice structure you just represent a strong black man. Broad shoulders. IDRIS TYPE My friend was blushing even under his dark choc skin you know she was on point with the shit but damn she was reading him and shit damn just like me NICE MOM DUKES !!!!! LMAO
So she was like you better than that other lil negroe I seen walking down the street mind you dude live up the street and you know we be chiefing lol laughing clowning watching football so mom dukes was like
OH HE MUST BE CONSERVATIVE he walking down the street. HE MUST BE A CONSERVAGAS type nigga LMAO oh me and p was like your mom is so CLOWNING
She was like brothas can't be a conservagas type man coming to see my daughter
So when people say Mich your too mean or straight forward sarcastic if you met my moms you would be like
SHE GOT IT FROM HER MAMAS I'm OUT !!! GOT IT HONESTLY!!!!!!

Shelles

What Is Happening To Our Children???? and our families

NEWS: SEARCH STILL UNDERWAY FOR BABY ZARA

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

It’s been three weeks since 21-year-old Shamsiddin Abdur-Raheem allegedly abducted his daughter, 3-month-old Zara, from her maternal grandmother’s apartment in East Orange, New Jersey, and threw her over the Garden State Parkway bridge into the Raritan River.

On Monday, Abdur-Raheem pleaded not guilty to a murder charge which carries a possible sentence of 30 years to life in prison. Zara still hasn’t been found.

Her mother, Venetta Benjamin, is hoping and praying for her daughter’s safe return. And she also doesn’t believe her daughter is in the Raritan River.

Benjamin’s best friend and Zara’s godmother, Marie David, recently spoke exclusively to Concrete Loop and said both she and Venetta believe that if Zara were in the river, they would have found her by now, “but at this point we can only pray for answers.”

She also commented on the investigation and search for Zara:

This issue is not being handled with the utmost importance by authorities. I believe that because she was an African-American child, this tragedy is not being taken seriously. Many things in this incident that my best friend is trying to cope with were not handled adequately from the very beginning: there was no AMBER alert issued for the missing child at the time she went missing around 4:30pm until four hours later. She was turned away when she tried to reach out for help the prior day because it was a holiday (President’s Day).”

A website has been created for Baby Zara, and it contains the latest articles and updates on the search. Marie, Venetta and her family are all in good faith that Zara will be returned home to her family and loved ones.

Zara was reportedly last wearing a pink and green Carter’s onesie and may have been wrapped in a blue sleeping bag. If anyone has seen or heard anything regarding the abduction of Baby Zara, please contact your local police or New Jersey State Police at (732) 264-4150.(sourced from www.concreteloop.com)

Fire CROTCH for real.....


Woman blasts off boyfriend’s penis with firecrackers

25 May, 05:07 PM

A Russian woman got so upset by the news that her boyfriend intended to leave her that she tied several firecrackers to his penis and exploded them, the Life.ru web-site reports.

The 33-year-old victim, identified as Alik D. had lived with the woman whose name was reported as Kira V. for about two years, but when the girlfriend started suggesting that they should marry, the man refused and said that he would rather return to his first wife with whom he had a son.

When Alik started moving out Kira suggested that they had a farewell dinner. After a hearty meal and some heavy drinking Alik fell asleep. The girlfriend tied several firecrackers to Alik’s penis and exploded them. The man was rushed to intensive care and doctors are reported to be fighting for his life.

Even if the man survives the girl will face up to 12 years imprisonment.

Tags: weird news, marriage, mutilation


Source: http://mosnews.com/weird/2009/05/25/1909/

Eye Candy#21




Today's eye candy was one of my dream lovers when I was growing up. When I first saw his "bad ass" attitude on 21 Jump Street I was forever a fan(and my Aunt Daphne is a FANATIC). Mr. Johnny Deep is what a sista would call a "bad ass/rebel" he is so against the grain as an actor and I think that is what sistas are attracted too. He has the looks, the swag and can really ACT!! He has starred in 21 Jump Street, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, Edward Scissorhands, Benny&Joon, Pirates of the Caribbean, Public Enemies, Blow &Donnie Brasco (my 3 fav of his movies). Mr. Deep exudes that bad boy image that us sistas dream about...who wouldn't want to be on the run with him like the characters in Public Enemies?? He also dabs in a lil bit of rock n roll...bad boy+rock star= a sista's dream LOL...Mr. Deep has the tats, the looks and those eyes are so seductive they just draw you into him!! He is literally a jack of all trades...actor, rock star, wine maker and restaurateur......Why wouldn't he be one of our eye candies?? GOOD LAWD!!
Thank you LAWD for blessing the Earth and our eyes with this beautiful creature that you created.

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Black Statute of Liberty by Jessica Care Moore

Remember her from winning on Apollo and being on Def Poetry Jam??Jessica is one of the Grio's 100 History Makers in the Making....

Negrohead Mountains??

I just read this article on www.thegrio.com about a set of Santa Monica Moutains names Negrohead Mountain; which were named after a Black pioneer; John Ballard whom lived at the base of the mountains after being freed from slavery. At first it was referred to as "N-word ballad hill" but over time just became "N-word Hill then eventually Negrohead Mountains..WTF!!?? I live in California and I have never heard about these mountains nor the Black pioneer. At least people decided to fight for a cause that was worth fighting!! Big Ups to them and Mr. John Ballard!!
Check this video out
I am always learning something new each day and I love it!!

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This Is Some BS..But the Reality of Some of Our Sistas Living in the South

Mississippi woman could die in prison for $11 robbery

Mississippi woman could die in prison for $11 robbery

Jamie Scott and her grandchildren (Photo courtesy of Free the Scott Sisters)

Evelyn Rasco has been living a nightmare for more than 15 years.

"It's torture," she sobs over the phone from her Pensacola, Florida home. "It tortures me on a daily basis."

The nightmare began on Christmas Eve in 1993 when Rasco's two daughters, Jamie and Gladys Scott, left a mini-mart near their home in Scott County, Mississippi. Their car broke down, and they hitched a ride from two young men, one of whom they knew. But later that evening, the men were robbed at gunpoint by three teenagers in another car. The robbers got away with an estimated $11 and no one was hurt, but police accused the Scott sisters of setting the victims up.

Although the young women denied having any involvement and had no criminal record, a jury found them guilty of armed robbery. On October 13, 1994, a judge ordered them to each serve double-life sentences in the Central Mississippi Correctional Facility, where they remain today.

"It is about race," says Chokwe Lumumba, a political activist and attorney who's now representing the Scotts. "I think it would be unimaginable that two white women would be in this situation."

Lumumba is now in the process of filing a request to Mississippi Governor Haley Barbour, asking for clemency for the Scotts, who are not eligible for parole until 2014. He's also working to appeal the conviction, which was first denied in 1996. He says his hope is to find the two co-defendants in the case who initially testified against the Scott sisters under police pressure (and served 10 months through a plea bargain), but later recanted their statements.

"That could give life to another post conviction motion... that would be significant," says Lumumba.

But time is of the essence.

Jamie, 38, suffers from kidney failure, and according to Rasco, will likely die if she doesn't receive a kidney transplant. She says Gladys, 34, even offered to donate her own kidney, but the Mississippi Department of Corrections (MDOC) will not allow the procedure. It also denied requests from Rasco and other family members to grant Jamie a medical release, stating an inmate must be classified as terminal or totally disabled.

"Everything's going fine right now, and she's receiving the proper care," says Suzanne Singletary, MDOC's Director of Communications.

Singletary also noted that MDOC's Chief Medical Officer, Dr. Gloria Perry, and its Commissioner, Christopher Epps, are both African-American - and in the past year, have approved at least one other organ transplant.

"If an inmate requires a transplant... we tell them to proceed," says Singletary.

But Rasco, who visited her daughters two weeks ago, says Jamie has continuously received poor medical treatment while incarcerated and currently suffers from infections.

She says she's determined to free both her daughters, not only for their sake, but for the sake of their children and grandchildren.

She's getting growing support. Last month, Charles Evers, the older brother of slain civil rights leader, Medgar Evers, organized a rally outside of the Mississippi state capitol building in support of the Scotts' release.

For Rasco, it's enough to give her hope that her never-ending nightmare will soon be over.

"I'm not going to stop 'til Jamie and Gladys walk through my door as free women," says the 64-year-old. "I may give out, but I'm not gonna give up!"

Talking about HAIR.....


We, the sistas are very diverse when it comes to our hair styles..Michelle rocks the braids, Kareen rocks the short permed cut and I rock the pressed look....we decided to write a blog about our perspectives on our hair selection since the topic of hair is such a issue for our sistas, especially our Black sistas

MICHELLE'S P.O.V.
Ok so everyone might have an opinion on why Michelle wears braids
I wear them because I love them
I'm not into the permed hair thing which I tried
And it just not me
The weave thing I tried and that shit just too expensive
I'm black and I'm proud braids are apart of an heritage which has been depreciated or looked as an ugly thing. I LOVE IT !! YOU CAN HATE ON ME WHEN YOU KNOW MY BRAIDS IS FLY!!!!
Braids ,natural hair, nappy hair big nose big lips dark skin light skinned what the fuck does it matter people it' all beautiful !!
I wear no make up and I wear braids you wear weaves and make up expensive clothes to cover your insecurities and even if my braids ain't new I show my new growth NO PROBLEM !!
Braids represents to me strength endurance black eccentric beauty statement acceptance history labor security individual glamour !!!!!!!!!!!
So braids these days in the era of the ignorance means ghetto hood poverty and those statements are made from people the same color as me WHAT A SHAME!!
BAMBOOZLED to believe makeup plastic surgery hair implants is the BEST so you can look more like the white kind to feel more excepted by the OTHERS!!!
My hair doesn't make me my heart and soul makes me
If you judge me by my hairstyle then why do I need or care about your opinion on why Michelle wears braids!!
Until you rock braids an Afro dreads no makeup bald head cornrows don't give your opinion on beauty because your beauty has been disguised !!!
Like it or leave me alone
Shells

RONI'S P.O.V.
I won't go into a very detailed history of my hair story, but for the past 7 years or so I shed the perm and either rock my hair in its natural state; with a scarf wrapped around my head or slicked back in a bun, or pressed bone straight(thanks to my girl Val LOL). My hair is much more healthier and has grown so much since i decided to stop perming it (my girl Val told me its so damaging and my hair would never grow to its full potential). Now I've had perms, dyed my hair since the age of 15, a jheri curl when i was in elementary, braids(extension and natural) and now the press so I know the versatile styles that we sistas have available to us. I find the press for me is more healthy and my hair texture seems to be more easy to manage even when it's not pressed compared to when I had it permed; you know after a certain about of weeks that perm losses its benefits of making your hair straight and manageable and turns your hair into a nappy mess and you looking like where did that hair come from. I love pressing my hair because there are no chemicals involved and the maintenance is a lot easier than a perm, braids or weave. Not to knock anyone's choice of hair style I just love the PRESS LOL. Like I stated before my hair has grown so much(passed my shoulders) which I haven't been able to attain since I was younger when my hair was a virgin to the perm(that's a long story about the 1st perm experience). I love the fact that when I wash my hair it returns to its natural state and I can rock cornrows if I want or slick it back in a bun without having to worry about my hair breaking off or shedding from the chemicals reacting to my alternative hairstyles. One CON for me--I wish there was a way for me to wash my hair and the press would magically return (having that Asian in me results in oily hair), but if a sista has to she'll get her hair done every week or so or invest in a flat iron and use it for those in-between-appointment times (that reminds me I have to buy one LOL). For some sistas a perm is more convenient than a press if they workout constantly, can't get to the shop or afford it every 2 weeks or just like the look and feel of the perm, but from my P.O.V. I am so glad that I made the switch from perming to pressing and I think; well I should say I know that my hair appreciates it too. Like Michelle stated about her braids I feel a sense of freedom having my hair pressed because I freed my hair and body from toxic chemicals and I feel great about it.
Roni

KAREEN'S P.O.V.
As with most black women maintaining my hair has been a epic battle. However, I think I have found my niche with keeping it short and permed. I have tired it all, braids, pressing etc.

Several years ago at a hair salon, the white hair dresser next me, looked at me and said "perming is the liquid crack." The statement kind of threw me off and I started pressing my hair for several years after that.


Since about 4-5 years now, I have had short hair. I have kept it short because it is extremely easy to maintain. My natural hair is pretty course and there is a thin line between a short cut and a short afro. Which is why I keep it permed. I am the worse when it comes to taking care of my hair. If I'm not at the hair shop twice a month it is a problem. I also like to keep color which all leads to breakage, breakage, breakage.

Not too many sistas can rock a short hair cut. I have pretty strong features and feel like the short cut fits my face well.

Sistas have spent $$ on their hair in a lifetime what some people pay for a nice luxury vehicle. The hair budget is no joke on a monthly basis.

I found a dope hairstylist who does a mean cut. Shout out to Mesch Hair Studio's in Studio City. She has been talking about leaving to Milan in a few years. Im sure once she is gone, I'll go completely natural, twist, dreads etc.

Until then, Its all about that liquid Crack.

KG

Angels.....


I heard a wonderful story about a four year old boy. His mother had a new baby and he kept asking to be alone with his baby sister. His parents were somewhat concerned but finally they agreed. They switched on the intercom and the little boy ran into the room and carefully closed the door. This is what they heard him whisper to the baby. "Hey Baby, talk to me about God and the angels. I'm beginning to forget."

KG

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Eye Candy#20





Today's eye candy pick is an actor who some might remember from The Fast and Furious, Into The Blue, Flags of Our Fathers and Varsity Blues. But I think sistas we remember him for those icy blue eyes, chiseled face and GOOD LAWD that body. He is the epitome of a California Boy. Born in the Valley and raised in the Mormon Church, Mr. Paul Walker is something to drool over (pick you mouths up and close them after looking at these pictures)!! He was one of People's Most Beautiful People in 2001 and sistas do you not see why?? This boy has the body of those surfers that you see on the PCH getting undressed and have to take a second look at their abs and arms (or is that just me?? hahahahaha). I know he was in the Fast and the Furious, but when it comes down to it I rather have the furious than the fast and I think he can satisfy that one!!He loves the water so if a sista is drowning he can come rescue me any time and perform mouth-to-mouth HAHA! GOOD LAWD!!
Thank you LAWD for blessing the Earth and our eyes with this beautiful creature that you created.

Monday, March 8, 2010

And They Say Black Boys Aren't Smart...Nor Worth Saving........


www.chicagotribune.com/features/happynews/ct-met-urban-prep-college-20100305,0,3299917.story
chicagotribune.com
Every Urban Prep senior is college-bound
100 percent of first senior class at all male, all African-American Englewood academy is accepted to universities

By Duaa Eldeib, Tribune reporter

8:43 PM CST, March 5, 2010

Four years ago, Bryant Alexander watched his mother weep.

She stared down at a muddle of D's and F's on his eighth-grade report card and threatened to kick him out. He had barely passed elementary school, and high school wasn't even on his radar.

"Something just clicked," Alexander, now 18, said. "I knew I had to do something."

On Friday, Alexander proudly swapped his high school's red uniform tie for a striped red and gold one — the ritual at Englewood's Urban Prep Academy for Young Men that signifies a student has been accepted into college.

As the Roseland resident and 12 others tied their knots, Chicago's only public all-male, all-African-American high school fulfilled its mission: 100 percent of its first senior class had been accepted to four-year colleges.

Mayor Richard Daley and city schools chief Ron Huberman surprised students at the all-school assembly Friday morning with congratulations, and school leaders announced that as a reward, prom would be free.

The achievement might not merit a visit from top brass if it happened at one of the city's elite, selective enrollment high schools. But Urban Prep, a charter school that enrolls all comers in one of Chicago's most beleaguered neighborhoods, faced much more difficult odds.

Only 4 percent of this year's senior class read at grade level as freshmen, said Tim King, the school's founder and CEO.

"There were those who told me that you can't defy the data," King said. "Black boys are killed. Black boys drop out of high school. Black boys go to jail. Black boys don't go to college. Black boys don't graduate from college.

"They were wrong," he said.

Every day, before attending advanced placement biology classes and lectures on changing the world, students must first pass through the neighborhood, then metal detectors.

"Poverty, gangs, drugs, crime, low graduation rates, teen pregnancy — you name it, Englewood has it," said Kenneth Hutchinson, the school's director of college counseling, who was born and raised in Englewood.

He met the students the summer before they began their freshman year during a field trip to Northwestern University, the first time many of them had ever stepped foot on a college campus. At the time, Hutchinson was Northwestern's assistant director of undergraduate admissions. Inspired by what he'd seen, he started working for Urban Prep two months later.

"I'm them," he said Friday as he fought back tears. "Being accepted to college is the first step to changing their lives and their communities."

Hutchinson plays a major role in the school, where college is omnipresent. Students are assigned college counselors from day one. To prepare students for the next level, the school offers a longer than typical day — about 170,000 minutes longer, over four years, than other city schools — and more than double the usual number of English credits, King said

Even the school's voice-mail system has a student declaring "I am college-bound" before asking callers to dial an extension.

The rigorous academic environment and strict uniform policy of black blazers, red ties and khakis isn't for everyone. The first senior class began with 150 students. Of those who left, many moved out of the area and some moved into neighborhoods that were too dangerous to cross to get to the school, King said. Fewer than 10 were expelled or dropped out, he said.

At last count, the 107 seniors gained acceptance to a total of 72 different colleges, including Northwestern University, Morehouse College, Howard University, Rutgers University and University of Illinois at Champaign-Urbana. Alexander was accepted to DePaul University.

While college acceptance is an enormous hurdle to jump, school leaders said they know their job isn't done; they want to make sure the students actually attend.

To that aim, King said, staff made sure that every student has completed the dreaded Free Application for Federal Student Aid, lest the red tape deter them.

Later in the year, the school plans to hold a college signing day where every student is to sign a promise to go to college, he said. Staff will stay in touch through the summer and hopefully in the first years of school.

"We don't want to send them off and say, ‘Call us when you're ready to make a donation to your alma mater,' " King said. "If we fulfill our mission, that means they not only are accepted to college, but graduate from it."

For now, students are enjoying the glow of reaching their immediate goal.

Normally, it takes 18-year-old Jerry Hinds two buses and 45 minutes to get home from school. On the day the University of Illinois at Champaign-Urbana was to post his admission decision online at 5 p.m., he asked a friend to drive him to his home in the Auburn Gresham neighborhood.

He went into his bedroom, told his well-wishing mother this was something he had to do alone, closed the door and logged in.

"Yes! Yes! Yes!" he remembers screaming. His mother burst in and began crying.

That night he made more than 30 phone calls, at times shouting "I got in" on his cell phone and home phone at the same time.

"We're breaking barriers," he said. "And that feels great."

deldeib@tribune.com

Copyright © 2010, Chicago Tribune


I found this article to be so inspiring....never let anyone tell you that you are worthless, hopeless and dumb/ignorant. I went www.urbanprep.org Urban Prep's website and found their creed..I LOVE IT!!!!! Keep saving those black boys Chicago!!
The Urban Prep Creed

We believe.
We are the young men of Urban Prep.
We are college bound.
We are exceptional-not because we say it, but because we work hard at it.
We will not falter in the face of any obstacle placed before us.
We are dedicated, committed and focused.
We never succumb to mediocrity, uncertainty or fear.
We never fail because we never give up.
We make no excuses.
We choose to live honestly, nonviolently and honorably.
We respect ourselves and, in doing so, respect all people.
We have a future for which we are accountable.
We have a responsibility to our families, community and world.
We are our brothers' keepers.
We believe in ourselves.
We believe in each other.
We believe in Urban Prep.
WE BELIEVE.

Eye Candy#19





Today's eye candy is the epitome of a ROCKSTAR....Lenny Kravitz is just plain ol FINE!!!! There's no need to sugarcoat it or deny it. What is there not to like about this man?? His body is banging, his music speaks to your soul and heart and his face is not bad on a sista's eyes at all. From American Woman to I Want To Get Away Mr. Kravitz can play with me like the strings of his guitars!! His mother was Roxie Roker; actress that played Helen Willis on The Jeffersons and his dad was a Russian Jew NBC producer. He might be best known for being the ex-husband of The Cosby'sLisa Bonet. He also played the nurse in Precious. Who wouldn't want him to tend their every needs and wants. Just take a look at the pictures...if you have never seen or heard of Mr. Kravitz..please be prepared to become a fan or stalker(LOL) instantly...maybe you wouldn't mind becoming his American Woman?!?!
GOOD LAWD!!
Thank you LAWD for blessing the Earth and our eyes with this beautiful creature that you created.